Grey blazer, white hoodie over cap, big korean glasses? GOT IT..

It seems I can say without much disagreement that I generally attract creepy men. I’ve had my fair share of creepiness from men. For instance..when I used to work in a craft store, I had a man who’d come by to buy a button or something small each time and then one day, he pushes a wrapped gift across the counter and left….and it was a book of love poems, with his name and phone number scribbled on it…btw, that man was probably in his 30’s, wears a backpack with a suit and looks like a loner/geek…*SHIVERS*..

So creepy guy stories are very common and that isn’t special enough for a whole post dedicated to it. How about aggressive jerks? Would you like to hear a story about the biggest jerk to ever walk on the face of earth? (hm, not sure he’d be able to walk after last night though).

This is how it all began……

FRIDAY NIGHT - GANGNAM CLUB NB

Tired from dancing and squishing and unknown hands groping and touching us, we walked over to a corner by the air vents for a rest. We try calling the boys, they’re probably somewhere drinking, we thought. Standing there, getting tired…I could feel someone’s hands on my waist. Not turning around, I brush it off. That’s probably the 40th time it’s happened tonight…there’s just so many people and so many guys, it really was a sausage fest in here. Ew.

I felt hands on me again. So I brush it off..again. Then a pair of arms grab me by the waist and pulls me backwards. Annoyed, I push his arms away and I turned around. Don’t touch me, I said. He did it AGAIN. I glared at him, DONT TOUCH ME.

He shoves me. Not a little push or elbowing, he shoves me…hard. I almost lose my balance (lucky I’m well trained in heels). WHAT THE FUCK?!? I shoved him back really hard and he stumbles back a few steps. DON’T TOUCH ME. The girls look at him with disgust. I turn around and talk to the girls and HE SHOVES ME AGAIN.

Now I was getting mad. I turn around and he sticks his middle finger in my face. What kind of a guy does that? What a jerk. He tells me go away in Korean. I said YOU GO AWAY. And he shoves me AGAIN. Nicole, Janice and Grace steps up and we’re all yelling at him. He turns around to walk away but he pushes all of us and then quickly disappeared. What a loser!!! We were all pretty furious at that point. Nicole was about to punch his face.

He kinda ruined the night for us, so we went outside to wait for the guys. Tommy comes out and Grace told him what happened. Everyone was pretty agitated, and Tommy looks at me “He tried to fuck with you? Tell me WHO…tell me who and I will go in there and fuck him up.” I smiled, thanks Tommy. But don’t. I don’t want to cause trouble… Tommy calls Hoyoun, “Yo, come now. BEEF. Someone’s fucking with Jamie.”

Within seconds, Hoyoun’s running towards us yelling BEEF?? u said BEEF?? LEt’s go get him. He looks at me and says “TELL ME WHO”. I have a bad feeling. They’re so serious…c’mon guys, just let it go, I said.

"Grey blazer, white hoodie over a cap, big korean glasses" Nicole says. "I remember his ugly face."

Before I could say anything, they all went back inside…so I just followed, “Hey….don’t.”

We were walking through the dance crowd when Hoyoun points to a guy “Grey blazer, white hoodie over a cap, big korean glasses? That mudafucker over there?” Oh yes. It was him indeed.

Hoyoun walks up to him “Yo, you pushed someone?” Tommy says “You pushed my girl?” And fists were flying and the guy was on the floor soon enough. After maybe 7 or 8 punches to his face, the guys stopped and pulled us to leave.

The guys kept telling me “I got your back” and “Are you okay?” It’s not like he did anything to me that would make me not okay. Everyone tells me he deserved it, but deep down, I still feel really bad about it. Okay, he was a huge jerk, but I really wonder if he’s okay….

Anyways, I guess I can go around starting shit everywhere and just call Tommy and Hoyoun and Nicole and say “BEEEEF” and they’d probably be more than happy to fight. HAha..

Feeling like a lucky man and Girls are better liars!!

Last night, Nicole prepared a fabulous meal for me whilst I was still at work. Yes, I gave her the passcode to get in (as she gets off work earlier than I did). The last few hours at work were torturous for me…..all I could think of was the dinner that would be waiting for me when I got home. I felt the way a lucky man might feel - to have a delicious meal greet you after a hard day of work.

I wonder if that was actually really how men feel? Maybe you men out there could let me know….I really did feel lucky. If I was a man, it would’ve been the perfect scenario HAHA!! too bad, I’m a girl and she’s a girl and we’re not lesbians. HAHA!!!

However, it was a nice change from the empty apartment I normally go home to.

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Fast-forward to today…….
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The last week of the term (already!!) Two more terms and I’m outta here!! WooOT!

Anyways, since it was the last lesson, I decided to be nice and we played games. I taught the children the Mafia game, where the aim was to try to find the killer before everyone gets killed. At first, the kids didn’t quite get it, and they kept yelling out “HA! I killed you!! I’M the mafia! HA..HA..HA”…which really ruined the whole point of the game.

After a few example-trys, they finally got it…and my, were they good!

I told them they could lie and manipulate others so nobody knows who’s who and they could even accuse others if they were the mafia…etc. I took a video of them, and I shall post that up shortly~ they are sooo cute!!

Anyways, after the game, I conclude with confidence that GIRLS ARE BETTER LIARS !

The boys just have this frustrated look upon their face when wrongly accused and end up being voted to die. The girls on the other hand, were very good at convincing everyone to kill off the police, and manage to shift away any suspecting eyes onto another person….well done! well done!

This really made me think, I wonder what kind of girls they will grow up to be….manipulative, discreet, scary and down-right a bitch?? I hope not!! At least there is hope for all you man-hating women out there……not all guys are bad. At least the ones in my class are very honest and don’t know how to lie….they don’t even know how to defend themselves when they are in fact, innocent! haha…

What do the stars say about me?

Apparently, there’s more to a star sign..each person has at least three! The sun sign, moon sign and mercury sign. WOW. See, all the things I learn from the world wide web. Being a teacher, we have at least an hour each day where the kids are working quietly, and that is my “surf the web” time. Usually, I try to be educational and read the news, but I often end up on facebook messaging my co-worker who’s right next door. Yes, sounds sad, but that’s just what I do. Anyhow, today I randomly googled LIBRA HOROSCOPE. TA-DA….a million search results. And one just stood out. Find your FREE BIRTH CHART. And so I did, and I found out that I am a Libra in sun, Sagittarius in moon and a Scorpio in Mercury. Never knew that!

So here is my profile….according to the stars above. =)

SUN IN LIBRA
Those with the Sun in Libra have an easy grace and charm that is enviable. Many have soothing voices that are easy on the ears, which is lucky since they love to talk. When their gift for the gab is put to a high-minded purpose, they’re at their very best.
Libra is associated with the scales, and they’re noted for being able to harmonize and bring peace to conflicted situations. They thrive in calm, aesthetically pleasing environments, and can be easily discombobulated by the chaos of modern life.
It’s hard and perhaps even not natural for a Libra to “go it alone,” since more than any other sign, they work best in a social environment. They enjoy bouncing ideas off other people, and joining forces as a team, which makes them great business partners. Many Libras are drawn to creative fields, since their eye for beauty is often quite refined.
In romance, the Sun in Libra has a natural gift for being the ideal in the eyes of their beloved. This is partly because they’re so instinctively aware of what it is the other wants and needs them to be. And while some Libras end up losing their sense of self in the process, a more romantic, devoted partner is hard to find.
At a party, you’ll find that Libra is the one playing host or hostess and looking fabulously at ease. They’ve got an artful way of spreading around the cocktails and the scintillating ideas — watching them might make you think of a lava lamp because it’s just as hypnotic.
The same languid style that puts everyone in a relaxed mood can lead to self-indulgence and a passive attitude toward life. And even though Libras take a lot of heat for being indecisive, they make up for it with an idealism that has the power to change their world.
ASCENDANT IN GEMINI
Those born with Gemini rising see the world as a place to learn. They are curious about the people around them. These are people who love to ask questions, to move around freely, and to mingle. Definitely restless and often quick in physical expression, natives of the Gemini Ascendant exude an air of impatience even if they don’t mean it. They can be bubbly, changeable, talkative, and a little quirky. These natives are interesting and fun. They constantly explain things, whether it’s their own behavior and opinion or those of the world around them.
The Ascendant (or rising sign) is often considered the mask one wears when meeting others. Perhaps it is most aptly thought of as the automatic responses to one’s environment. The Ascendant shows our natural defenses and how we cope with day-to-day issues. The energies of the sign and condition of the Ascendant are most overt and obvious to others. The Ascendant shows an individual’s first, natural reaction to new people and situations.
Gemini Rising and Mercury in Scorpio
Your ruling planet Mercury is in the probing and shrewd sign of Scorpio. Your wit has a dark edge to it and you are particularly fond of black humor. You can be caustic and witty with words, or mischievously point out the unspoken thing that everybody else is trying to skirt. Your function is like that of the child who pointed out that the emperor was not wearing any clothes. You like to play the spy, the detective. You search out hidden truth, talk about the forbidden topic and look past facades. Psychology, esoteric or occult knowledge or the deeper aspects of healing and medicine intrigue you.

MOON IN SAGITTARIUS

More than anything, Lunar Sagittarians have a need for personal freedom and space. They are extraordinarily happy and easygoing folk, as long as they don’t feel caged in or cooped up.  Lunar Sagittarians have a simultaneous need for activity. Meeting new people, going out in the world, and travel are all important to their sense of well-being. They love open spaces, and, in their homes, a roomy and bright environment.
There’s a bit of a teacher in Moon in Sagittarius, and definitely a helpful spirit. They easily forget appointments and the like, and some are even considered irresponsible. However, it is hard to stay angry at a Lunar Sagittarian! They are so cheerful and upbeat, and their optimism is catchy.
Many people with this position are outdoorsy types. At the very least, they have a great love for friendly competition.
When the going gets tough, these people run away. They don’t like to be caught up in routine for too long, and they simply need to escape.
There’s a blind faith in Lunar Sagittarians that is admirable. They simply believe that everything will work out. Not much for making detailed plans, people with Moon in Sagittarius prefer to wing it. They’re very adaptable and generally on the go.

MERCURY IN SCORPIO

These people are on an eternal quest to get to the very heart of any matter. This appears in anything that requires thought, and in almost every conversation they have. Totally fearless when it comes to delving into depths that nobody else wants, or even thinks, to explore, Mercury in Scorpio is adept at learning the source and the core of any problem or issue. Often they seem to pick up on everything, especially what goes unsaid. What they offer has depth, while going to the heart of the matter.

As a water sign, they read emotional vibes, and are the first to spot a liar. Because of this radar for what’s off, they sometimes seem obsessed with other people’s character flaws. They are skilled investigators and love having a mystery to solve. This genius for disecting human motivation also makes them gifted artists, often drawn to the darker side of life as subject matter.

When challenged, this Mercury has an instinct for gaining the upper hand in a conversation at any cost. Their intelligence is absolutely instinctive. Strategies are their specialty. It can be very hard to win an argument or debate with Mercury in Scorpio. They are absolutely driven to win, not just for the sake of scoring intellectual points, but simply to come out on top in general. Besides that, it is hard to deny that their thinking is really quite lucid, at least in presentation. You may be gritting your teeth, but it will be hard not to concede.

They’ll staunchly support and defend anyone they care about. And, their energy in speech (or sheer intensity) can be motivating. The pep talk may have been at someone else’s expense, however (they may have torn someone else apart to boost you up, for example).

Mercury in Scorpio loves anything that challenges the brain and are often interested in what makes people tick.



So there…that’s what they say about me. What do you think?

Wasting by Waiting

I’ve notice that at some point in everyone’s life, we wait. Some people do it more than others, but really, we all wait.

This waiting can include waiting for a phone call, waiting for those skinny jeans to fit again, waiting for that engagement ring after a decade together, waiting for someone to stop smoking and gambling, waiting for someone to stop cheating on you, waiting for a new job, waiting for an opportunity, waiting for the right time to come. The list goes on. But it is all the same: waiting is a waste.

Yes, I am bitter about this because I am guilty as charged. I often wait. I don’t do it intentionally, but I do often fall into the trap of waiting. I often wait for things to happen, but really, things don’t just miraculously fall into our waiting hands…So through all these torturous waiting periods (of my life and also of others that I’ve witnessed), I’ve come to realize several things.

First, the waiting is our fault. We have the power to do something, whether it be to walk away from a failed relationship or call up every office to ask for a vacant position. But rather, we sometimes enjoy feeling sorry for ourselves and bask in the attention and sympathy from other people.

Second, we wait because we are afraid. No matter how confident we seem or how laidback we appear, we are afraid to move on. We get scared that this is the best its ever going to get. So maybe we should hang around until something better comes around. Maybe it’s in regards to finding a new job, moving to a different city, making new friends, wanting to end a bad relationship. In all aspects, we are afraid that if we walk away, we might lose whatever little it is that we already have and yet never reach our goal.

And that is scary. And that is why, more often than not, we choose to wait. However safe and comforting the waiting game seems to be, it is a waste of time. Think about all the things that we could have achieved, have we not waited. Yes, maybe we could’ve failed miserably, but I would rather fall and bruise than to keep thinking what if.

This is actually one of my new year’s resolutions - don’t just wait…DO!!

it all started with a long island ice tea....and ended up in a string of disappointments

Saturday night we went out to Anyang. The promised land.. this was the place where everyone who’s been told me its AWESOME!!! For weeks and weeks, somehow I kept missing out on those “oh…you should’ve came with us…it was CRAZY…” nights at Anyang. Lo and behold, Saturday I was all dolled up and ready to hit the scene~!!

First bar we went into, the guys kept telling us about these long island ice teas which taste like lemonade but hit you when you least expect it. So we tried it..and sure, it tasted good! Got another round or two and when we got up to leave…BAM….I was so tips I could hardly walk up the stairs……WOW~~ all before that, I kept talking like normal and my head was clear too….only when I stood up did I realize how drunk I was.

With all of us kinda drunk or tipsy, we headed over to the clubs. There was this particular club the guys recommended. Only thing is, they were soo drunk the last few times that they didn’t even remember how they got there. So we tried to back step and trace their routes once again…and we walked and walked and walked…around the same block, passed the same Christmas tree 7 times I recall. Disappoint number one!

Finally, we found it!!!!!! There was no entry fee, except you had to buy a beer to get in and it was about 5 bucks only. It was packed and the club was bumping.. there was a good mix of techno and RnB and even korean pop…beer after beer kept being handed to me and we danced the night off. One thing which did disappoint me was, everywhere I looked, guys were short, skinny, looked gay, wore geek glasses and beanies AND a scarfe in a club or wore spandex pants or ALL OF THE ABOVE. Whoever said korean guys were hot was LYING. dDisappointment number two!

Then we decided to go find something to eat and even in my drunken state, I knew this was something spectacular. We ate pizza slices served in a cup. Yep, you read it right the first time. In a paper cup. The pizza slice was jammed in there with the pointy end sticking out of the cup. WOW. This was the craziest slice of pizza I ever seen. And it was soo clever you’d wonder why no-one’s ever done that! Eat pizza without touching it with your dirty hands!! AHH…..MAzing….. So this sorta erased the disappointments encountered previously..

After we were all feeling satisfied with some warm food in our tummys and our eyes wide open again from the little discovery, we head back to more dancing and drinking.

Things quicky fell wayside when some big korean guys all tatted up tried to start a fight with the guys. I wasn’t sure what really happened to ignite it, but the flames sure went up quick. Next thing I know, one of the korean guys threw a bottle at us and that really got our boys angry. Shirts were being flung onto the floor and tattoos were being shown and mucles flexed, with a glint in their eyes as they stared at the korean guys cold and mean. I’m glad Michael was still coolheaded about everything and held Hoyoun back. This other korean guy kept apologizing too and somehow we managed to drag the guys out of the place. Then I hear the sound of breaking glass as Hoyoun slams his fist into a table full of empty beer bottles and then Tommy also swipes about 20 bottles onto the floor. Maybe that wasn’t even enough to let off steam because Hoyoun then proceeds to punch a hole into the wall. Amidst all these things happening so quickly, Audrey whispers in my ear that she wants to take a photo of the hole. HAHA!

Disappointment number was NOT the fact that we almost got into a fight. No, I would’ve gladly punched him out myself, that ugly fat bastard, BUT the fact that korean people are so racist. That was the last straw. Ever since I got here, I’ve encountered a number of racist incidents but this was by far the worst. Just because we were foreigners, the bouncers did not even try to break things up. Because we were foreigners, the lady at the door tells us that every Korean would’ve jumped us if things got bad. Because we were foreigners, we got shit thrown at us from random onlookers. That was probably the first time in Korea where I really hated Korean people. For their lack of common courtesy. For their unreasonably patriotic ways. For their distortioned sense of pride. For thinking that Korea’s number one. Fuck them all. And the fact that they think Korea’s so much better than China when Korea looks even uglier than China. And their currency is so cheap. 

Another major major disappointment is the fact that we have to work on Saturday next week because the school will be closed for Chinese New Year. Not just that, I actually dont mind working so much, but the fact that they didn’t even have the curtest to TELL US. They sent out letters to the students and it was the students who told me of the situation and yet, NOBODY decides to tell us stupid foreigners what the hell is going on.

So yes, as of now, I am quite disappointed with Korea. I thought Korea was a well-developed country with advanced technology and people with common social courtesy….but I guess now I’d rethink that.