Day one of a new year. It got me thinking of 2013. It was an eventful year with some big changes in my life. There were definitely things that I could’ve done better, but I’ve always been an advocate of ‘no regrets’ because I believe there is always something to learn, something to gain.
I was able to travel to the States for the first time. I went to Chicago and had an amazing time at their institute of art and see the beautiful architecture of the city. I was able to expand my social circle and reconnect with old friends. They saw me through laughter, tears and joy. I had my heart broken and probably also broke some along the way. It allowed me to see things with a wider perspective and learn how to truly let go. Nobody likes being the bad guy but it has given me the opportunity to face my fear of confrontation and be honest and upfront. I could definitely have handled things better but it’s a learning curve. I definitely had some proud moments and achievements where my hard work paid off. I was able to pass my clinical competency exam, be offered a job after my internship, and be a guest speaker on a program I assisted in developing. I was able to meet and work with established professionals in my field and learn from them. I ate some amazingly good food whilst being able to maintain a relatively healthy diet. I had the best fruit tart ever, most amazing salmon risotto, the best best best steak I ever had in my life, and oh, some really, really, REALLY good wine. I was able to visit my hometown and go to the wineries and stock up on my favourite wines. I was also lucky to be able to go with friends who were organized and well-planned and all I had to do was show up! I was able to meet with old friends who now live across oceans and spend quality time catching up. Even though we don’t have the chance to see each other frequently, we are always able to pick up right where we left off and never run out of things to talk about. I was able to have an even closer relationship with my mother and see her strength and optimism shine through during tough times. I was also able to see my younger brother grow and evolve into a man and reap the efforts he’s put into his career. I was able to try new things that I have never done before - went on some pretty amazing hiking feats, took up running, and gymming. I still suck at sports and exercise, but I’ve never enjoyed being active this much before. I was able to enjoy relatively good health. Apart from my chronically stuffed nose, I was generally ail free. I was able to find time to read books. I was introduced to books that I would never have read otherwise, and it has given me things to think about (like I need more). And I’m also very thankful for the fact that there are people out there who read my blog and find me funny! Today’s post isn’t particularly funny, but it is definitely heartfelt and genuine.
There are many more things that I am thankful for, but nothing would have been without the people and love I received. I am so grateful to be where I am right now and I have a feeling that 2014 will reel in even bigger and better things. I wish that you also can look back at 2013 and be thankful for the ups and downs, because there is always something to learn, something to gain. As for new year’s resolutions, I hope that I will be able to step out of my comfort zone and try new things, and be excited about life. Happy new year, you :)
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